Would you like to feel more confident? June’s monthly energy brings a greater potential for career development leading to increased confidence! It is a time when you can excel and enjoy your dream career by your confident focus on your happiness and desires! This is a unique and promising month that brings about an expansion of your wealth in the future. I encourage you to go for whatever you have been thinking you would like to do. Now is the time to take action! Learn about all nine June visiting energies in your building by scrolling to the bottom of this page. If you would like to receive this information by email as soon as it is written, join my VIP email subscribers by submitting your name and email in the box on the right of this page. In the box below that newsletter sign-up you may also request my MP3 – Mind Over Clutter!
“The Universe does not know whether the vibration that you’re offering is because of something you’re observing or something you’re remembering or something that you are imagining. It just receives the vibration and answers it with things that match it.”
Excerpted from Seminar in Napa, CA on 2/27/97 ~ Ester (Abraham and Jerry)
Increase your confidence immediately…..
When given a challenging situation, the est response is forgiveness toward others because you have no idea what has inspired the response of the other, and it usually has nothing to do with you. Instead of reacting, it is bet for you to respond by acknowledging the other person, paraphrasing what you heard them say and leading with compassion. That is the definition of forgiveness, and increases your vibration, and builds confidence within you.
Change your perspective just slightly and you will
have a completely different outcome!
Recently I observed a woman working in a retail store offering to help a customer. When the customer wanted something that the saleswoman told her was unavailable; the customer left saying to the sales person as she walked away, “Thanks for being of no help to me!” Then I noticed that the saleswoman began to dwell on that comment. She went to her manager, and to fellow employees to receive justification for her actions. She had been correct in what she told the woman, but she lacked confidence in her own knowledge. She doubted herself because of the customer’s attitude. The saleswoman continued to talk about the customer even though her co-workers agreed with her and suggested she let it go, she could not.
How many times has someone said something to you that made you doubt yourself, or caused you pain, or even regret about your actions? Your thoughts can undermine your confidence. How long did you focus on those words? Was it a few minutes, hours, a day, a week, or even decades? It is said we have between 50,000-70,000 thoughts per day. That means about 34-47 thoughts per second. Hard to comprehend don’t you agree? I also heard you can only focus on one thought at a time. What joyful moments did you miss when thinking about a troubling event?
How often do you allow others to ruin your day or life from one simple comment? Who have you allowed to pull you down? The key word in the previous sentence is “you”. You are choosing your thoughts in every moment. A thought is one of the few characteristics you can change within seconds. You can’t change your eye color unless you use contacts. You can’t change your height or your hand or feet size. But you can change your thoughts! How quickly can you let go of a thought that makes you sad and causes you to doubt yourself?
The ability to give the other person a pass and focus on what brings you joy, will immediately change your experience, your attitude, your overall confidence, and attract more of what you desire.
Don’t ignore how you feel, acknowledge your feelings, and then shift your thought to a time when you felt joy. Studies have shown, when you or someone you love is hurt by another, confronting them, expecting a resolution, rarely happens the way you would want because the other may never change their opinion. Getting revenge through hurt to the other usually does not help to relieve your pain. Forgiveness is the best solution once you realize that you were the one who attracted the experience to you. Ask yourself what were you thinking about before that incident occurred? Work on improving your own thoughts and your confidence and reality will improve as well.
I remember an experience when I was at a meeting several years ago, and I made a comment to a friend next to me and she responded with; “It bothers me how honest you are.” I was surprised at her comment. Then later that day I was at lunch with a different friend and she said,“I really like how honest your are.” What a contradiction between the morning friend’s comment and that of the afternoon friend’s comment. It helped me see that everyone has a different opinion formed by their own personal experiences.
There will always be people who see things differently than we do. Our perspective matters and we must be our own best friend, with understanding for the differences and experiences of others that may have influenced their interaction and relationships. If you are coming from your heart with good intentions for yourself and others, you can let things go easier. You may respond poorly because of your hurt feelings, but giving yourself a break and understanding you are always doing your best is healing and builds your confidence.
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See below for
Feng Shui Visiting Monthly Energies for:
June 6th, 2018 thru July 6th, 2018
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